Mists of Obscurity

At this particular time you are feeling the results of extreme stress and you
are seeking a 'way out' but you are pushing too hard. Obviously you need peace,
tranquility and contentment. Your temperament is such that you are hoping,
unrealistically perhaps, that your desires will shortly be fulfilled (even if at
this time you are not quite sure what those true aspirations may be!).

You are a leader and possibly at this time in a position of authority, but
you are experiencing problems. You are not quite sure how to handle the present
situation.

In spite of all the opposition, you are insisting that your goals are
realistic but circumstances are forcing you to compromise. You are not very
happy with this situation but there is little that you can do about it. You have
very strict standards which you try to apply to everyone who enters your sphere
of influence.

For whatever the reason, you find it extremely difficult to sustain
relationships - that is to sustain them in the manner that you would wish. You
are a very gentle sort of person, full of feeling, sensitivity and susceptible
to love and affection, looking and longing for a partner with whom you can enjoy
'All things bright and beautiful' - someone with whom you can seek out the more
esoteric things of life. But up to now this person has only existed in your
imagination. You are very choosy, appreciative, refined and extremely artistic
in temperament and it is your hope to seek others who will allow you to form and
express your own taste and judgement and who at the same time may assist you in
your intellectual or artistic growth.

You are inclined to be too trusting and you feel that you need to be on your
guard against the possibility that your endeavors and actions may be
misunderstood. Too often you have been taken advantage of and you have been
mentally abused. Now you are seeking a relationship which can provide peace of
mind, where you can be yourself and not have the need to put on a false front

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personality analysis from ColorQuiz.com.
Generated on Mon Mar 14
15:48:17 2005.

Your Existing Situation



Persistent. Demands what he feels to be his due and endeavors to maintain
his position intact.




Your Stress Sources



Has an unsatisfied need to ally himself with others whose standards are as
high as his own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence
isolates him and inhibits his readiness to give himself freely. While he wants
to surrender and let himself go, he regards this as a weakness which must be
resisted. This self-restraint, he feels, will lift him above the rank and file
and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.




Your Restrained Characteristics



Willing to participate and to allow himself to become involved, but tries to
fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.


Wants to broaden his fields of activity and insists that his hopes and ideas
are realistic. Distressed by the fear that he may be prevented from doing what
he wants; needs both peaceful conditions and quiet reassurance to restore his
confidence.


Insists that his goals and realistic and sticks obstinately to them, even
though circumstances are forcing him to compromise. Very exacting in the
standards he applies to his choice of a partner.






Your Desired Objective



Longs for tenderness and for a sensitivity of feeling into which he can
blend. Responsive to anything esthetic and tasteful.




Your Actual Problem



Wants to be valued and respected, and seeks this from a close and peaceful
association of mutual esteem.